Got a crush, but nervous to make the first move?

Tell Bamber who it is. I’ll quietly find out whether there’s a real chance—without revealing you or giving clues.

Only if they independently choose you too, and you both say yes, will I introduce you. If it isn’t mutual, your secret stays with me.

Tell Bamber privately.

I ask them independently.

A mutual yes becomes an introduction.

Private by default. No clues. No pressure.